058: What Happened to my Sex Drive & What Can I Do to Get It Back? // Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

What Happened to My Sex Drive & What Can I Do to Get It Back?
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Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is a licensed psychotherapist specializing in relationship and sexuality counseling. On today’s podcast, she discusses three common ways that women’s mindsets around sex can decrease our desire.

You’re going to want a pen and paper as you listen to this one. This woman is a genius, and she dives DEEP into our psyches! Get ready to take notes.

If you are interested in more of Dr. Finalyson-Fife’s work, go to http://www.finlayson-fife.com/ and check out her courses, which are 20% off through Christmas. I highly recommend!

Show Notes

Art of Desire Course: http://www.finlayson-fife.com/art-post-lms/

“How to Embrace Your Inner Hotness” by Leta Greene: https://www.amazon.com/How-Embrace-Your-Inner-Hotness-ebook/dp/B00N7VTACS

 

 

About the Podcast Host, Rachel Nielson

Rachel taught high school English for five years before deciding to be a stay-at-home mom to her two miracle babies, Noah Atticus, who was adopted, and Sally Grace, who was conceived through IVF.

In her life, Rachel has experienced great sorrow but also great joy--and she loves diving deep into the topics that matter most. Thank you for listening to the podcast and giving her a chance to share her heart.

8 Comments

  1. Jennifer on 12/04/2018 at 9:09 AM

    Hi Rachel, I’m one of your biggest fans! I sincerely appreciate your podcast. Just wanted to let you know that this episode with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife was incredibly informative, and so needed! I’ve listened to several other excellent podcast interviews that she’s given; so I was looking forward to more of the same. But this was especially outstanding. I was surprised to hear so much that opened my eyes. I will definitely be listening again. Thank you!!

    • Rachel Nielson on 12/05/2018 at 9:18 PM

      Wow! Thank you so much for the kind comment. I’m so glad to know that the episode was helpful to you in new ways! It was a joy to record this interview. Thank you so much for listening!!

  2. Cosette on 12/06/2018 at 11:30 AM

    Oh my goodness! All these mind frames you are talking about are all things in a chapter of a book (from a therapist) my dad sent to me when I got married. I can totally attest to the damage the “duty sex” mindset has. My husband hates that document and we’ve been looking for answers that don’t cause resentment. Thank you so much for his episode!

    • Rachel Nielson on 12/06/2018 at 4:18 PM

      Cosette–Do you mean that the damaging meaning frames were taught as correct in the book?? Or they were warned against?? I am so glad you found the episode helpful!

  3. Rindi on 12/06/2018 at 3:25 PM

    Rachel, I just listened to this. I was with you at the fabulous course this fall. Today, I wanted a little refresher, so I got online, and BOOM! I found this! This was the perfect reminder of all the good things we learned. Thanks for the great work and for sharing this. Much love this Christmas season!

    • Rachel Nielson on 12/06/2018 at 4:19 PM

      Hi!! Good to see you here! That course was life changing, and I’m so glad you found a good refresher here! xoxox

  4. JDS on 12/09/2018 at 12:19 PM

    I wish my wife would change the way she sees her/our/my sexuality. I didn’t get married to live the life of a monk that took votes of chastity…ugh!

    • Rachel Nielson on 12/14/2018 at 11:33 AM

      I recommend Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife’s courses to everyone in this situation! She has two courses that you and your wife could take together!

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