476: How to Deal with Your Stuff So Your Kids Don’t Have To // Eli Harwood

3 KEY TAKEAWAYS:

  • The most important mentorship you can give your children is around how to maturely feel and deal with emotions — not how to behave perfectly, but how to live with the full, messy range of human feeling without being destroyed by it.
  • Our kids can't rely on us for support around needs we haven't learned to meet in ourselves, which means the inner work we do isn't just good for us — it's the foundation of everything our kids actually need from us.
  • Perfectionism is the kryptonite to emotional security — the goal was never to be emotionally perfect, it's to be emotionally responsive, connected, and willing to come back after you've missed the mark.

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