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124: How to Stop Judging Yourself

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On top of everything hard that’s going on in the world right now with COVID-19, the last thing that we need is to listen to our own negative self-talk and harsh judgement all day long as we try to navigate this new normal. 

With that in mind, I pulled an episode from the archives that I think is THE most important episode I’ve ever aired on 3 in 30. Which is a bold claim, but I really do feel that way.

I hope the tools I present in this episode will help you to recognize and shut down that mean inner voice when it speaks to you during these strange weeks of quarantine. We really are doing the best we can.

3 Takeaways to Stop Judging Yourself

  1. Reject “filtered thinking” and embrace “big-picture thinking.”
  2. Talk to yourself the way you would talk to your best friend, sister, or daughter.
  3. Use “coping statements” to help you re-center and stay calm in moments when you might spiral into despair. Here is a list of coping statements to get you started!

Announcement!

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It’s no secret that I am a huge fan of therapy, and Betterhelp makes therapy more accessible to everyone by offering their services online and at an affordable price.

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You can start communicating with your counselor within 24 hours of submitting your questionnaire, and schedule a secure weekly video or phone session, plus you have the option to text or chat with your therapist. 

Betterhelp is truly an affordable option for therapy, and they’ve been so generous to offer 3 in 30 listeners 10% off your first month with the discount code 3IN30.

So if you’ve sometimes wondered if maybe you would benefit from therapy, why not give it a try with this super convenient, affordable, and confidential option? Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 for 10% off.

Related Episodes:

Episode 74: A True Story of Answered Prayers: 3 Essays I Wrote in Therapy

Episode 97: How to Let Go of Hard Stuff from your Past

Episode 107: Surviving Depression in Motherhood with Sarah McKenna

Episode 108: How to Get Help with Mental Illness with Sarah McKenna

About the Podcast Host, Rachel Nielson

Rachel taught high school English for five years before deciding to be a stay-at-home mom to her two miracle babies, Noah Atticus, who was adopted, and Sally Grace, who was conceived through IVF.

In her life, Rachel has experienced great sorrow but also great joy--and she loves diving deep into the topics that matter most. Thank you for listening to the podcast and giving her a chance to share her heart.

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